Our Story 


We know from studies that it’s our relationships (with ourselves and others) that make us happy. We believe in the power of true connection. In coming home to our selves and creating more vibrant, intimate and meaningful relationships with others.

It all started in 2017 when Adam Wilder put on the world's first festival of authentic human connection at the top of a skyscraper in Canary Wharf. Since then Togetherness has been designing learning experiences open to everyone no matter their age, sexuality, political beliefs, profession or religion (or anything else).

One opportunity led to another - and the world’s first house of permission and true connection was created, right in the heart of Covent Garden:

House of Togetherness

Whatever you want to learn or explore, you can join and enjoy evenings, talks and experiences like: Connected Conversations, Circling, Authentic Relating, Intimacy Safari, Body Positive Photo Studio, Self-Love Clinic, How to not F**k Up Your Kids, Rage Club, Architecture of Pleasure, Blindfolded Adventure Time, House Party and more.

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We’re for putting our phones down

And connecting with others beyond labels & masks

We’re for dancing between playful & profound

And for breaking the world’s group spooning record

For blindfolded adventures

And surprise feasts on the tube

For taking a moment to stop

& in the silence hear our hearts whisper

For speaking the truth

For feeling whole, fierce & alive

For exploring, playing & creating

Without shoulds or musts

This is your permission

To witness yourself as you are

And to be unapologetically yourself

Welcome to the House of Togetherness

Welcome Home.