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One Day Wheel of Consent Workshop

  • House of Togetherness 14-16 Betterton St London WC2H 9BU United Kingdom (map)

You are invited to a one day workshop on the Wheel of Consent.

A powerful tool to improve the quality of your touch and create clear agreements so you can experience satisfying connection to self and others.

This workshop is about:

  • Waking up sensuality – feeling and following pleasure

  • Making choices – learning how to choose for yourself

  • Understanding the dynamics of Receiving and Giving and taking them apart

  • Understanding who is doing and who it is for – because they are different

  • Gaining skills of empowerment and communication – noticing, valuing, and trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and feeling safe enough to receive

The Wheel of Consent gives you an experience of four ways to touch and relate within clear agreements:

  • Taking for your own pleasure – you do what you want – while respecting the giver’s boundaries;

  • Allowing another to take from you – they do what they want with your permission – while maintaining your boundaries;

  • Serving another for their pleasure – you do what they want – within your boundaries; and

  • Accepting the gift of another’s service – they do what you want – while maintaining their boundaries.

Who is this for?

Individuals & Couples

Get help with sexuality, touch and intimacy. Find the ease, confidence and sensuality that is your birthright. Learn to apply the Wheel of Consent in relating.


Sharpen your professional skills around consent, boundaries and facilitation. Learn to embody the Wheel of Consent and apply it in your sessions and workshops.


Create contracts and agreements with colleagues, clients, communities and the environment that are in alignment with the values of all parties.

You do not have to touch or be touched by anyone to participate during this evening. People of all genders and sexual orientations are welcome (just like all Togetherness events).

About Adam Wilder

Adam Wilder is a Connection & Intimacy coach, trained Counsellor and founder of the Togetherness movement. He is currently undergoing certification as a trainer in the Wheel of Consent.

House of Togetherness

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House of Togetherness is the pop-up Home of Human Connections in Covent Garden, here for just 3 months. We create live experiences that explore our relationship with ourselves and others in a playful, meaningful and often profound way.

We welcome everyone beyond their identity, labels and beliefs. There are no shoulds or musts at HoT only permission to be yourself.

What You Should Bring

We have locker rooms so bring a (returnable) pound if you wish to use them.

We're a sustainable venue and no longer use disposable cups for our events. Please bring a refillable water bottle or coffee cup for drinks. Alternatively we have reusable cups you can purchase from our tuck shop for £2.50 (and get 50p off any drink).

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