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Shhh Dating Night

  • House of Togetherness 14-16 Betterton St London WC2H 9BU United Kingdom (map)
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Flirting games. Eye gazing. No Talking


For more than 5 years Shhh Dating has been helping creative and professional Londoners get it together! Our unique dating experiences are friendly, playful and totally unique - Every 2nd Tuesday @ House of Togetherness

- Connect with open minded Londoners without talking
- Our friendly and experienced hosts guide you through the evening and make sure it's a lot of fun
- BYOB

Who is it for?

It's for professional guys and gals in their 20s and 30s, who want to meet other like-minded humans in person. You don't need to be a particular sort of person to come, just open-minded and the tiniest bit adventurous.

Hosting beyond compere

Our hosts are the best in the business, expert at making your evening playful and creating at atmosphere of ease. You will feel at home in no time at all. 

Why is it unique and awesome?

Without words, you get a chance to have a really different experience than other dating meetups. Past participants tell us they tend to date people longer term from our events. We create these events for the purpose of fun, authenticity without any pressure.

No matter if you make a romantic connection or not, people always leave our events feeling warm and happy, with a bit more inspiration in finding a more exciting way to date.

So really... there's no talking?

Well there are parts of the night where you are invited to leave words behind, though there are other times where you are welcome to talk. The eyes are the window to the soul. Scientists have shown that prolonged eye contact can lead to people falling in love. This is a moment to drop the words and tune in to people in a different way. There's plenty of time to talk at the end of the night.

Timing and Other Details

BYOB our lovely central London venue does not serve alcohol, you are welcome to bring your own.

You can bring a mate of the opposite sex to the event and get a discounted rate. Pick "mixed pair" in the ticket options below for cheaper tickets.

On the night, arrive from 7pm for registration, the event starts at 7:30pm sharp. We finish by 9:30pm and play some tunes for a further half an hour so you can stay and mingle or head off into the night as you prefer.

Matching our new matching system will email you your matches within 24 hours, we never give your contact details to people you haven't matched with.

House of Togetherness

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House of Togetherness is the pop-up Home of Human Connections in Covent Garden, here for just 3 months. We create live experiences that explore our relationship with ourselves and others in a playful, meaningful and often profound way.

We welcome everyone beyond their identity, labels and beliefs. There are no shoulds or musts at HoT only permission to be yourself.

What You Should Bring

We have locker rooms so bring a (returnable) pound if you wish to use them.

We're a sustainable venue and no longer use disposable cups for our events. Please bring a refillable water bottle or coffee cup for drinks. Alternatively we have reusable cups you can purchase from our tuck shop for £2.50 (and get 50p off any drink).

Earlier Event: May 5
Open House
Later Event: May 15
Circling at the House