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Intimacy Jam by Sex Club

  • House of Togetherness 14-16 Betterton St London WC2H 9BU United Kingdom (map)


Intimacy Jam by Sex Club, is both conversational AND experiential. Come listen, come share experiences and knowledge, and let us guide you through simple exercises & games to reclaim, deepen and redefine intimacy towards yourself and others. Leave feeling more connected, empowered, and with practises to continue at home.

Come by yourself, with your friend(s), lover(s), partner(s).

Experiences include:

★ Listening to other attendee's sexual experiences and knowledge, sharing your own and learn from each other

★ Guided exercises on touch, relating and intimacy (pants on, non-sexual)

★ Connecting with other like minded people

★ Access to a closed Facebook group to keep the dialogue going

★ Access to a shared resources document with workshops, books, practises etc.


Are you touch hungry?

Our culture provides for meeting all other needs, especially the need for autonomy, but not for intimacy. It still stigmatises sexuality and the majority of us has difficulties talking about it in detail. What some psychologists term "skin hunger" (also known as touch hunger) is a need for physical human contact. Although many people sate their skin hunger through sex, skin hunger isn't exactly a sexual need. Satisfying your skin hunger requires you to have meaningful physical contact with another person, and failing to observe your need for human touch can have profound emotional, even physical, consequences.


- Everyone is welcome, regardless of age, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation and experience, religious beliefs, and otherwise.

- No partner is required and everyone will have the opportunity to work with different people in order to enjoy a greater range of experience.

- Please come wearing comfortable clothing.

- Bring a refillable water bottle.

- Bring any food or snacks you’ll need to sustain you. We’ll provide tea and fruits.


Sex Club is run a not-for-profit and intends to be accessible for everyone regardless of income. Please contact us if you would like to apply for a free ticket in exchange for your time:


Facilitator Bio:

Juliane Mueller

I’m a facilitator of transformational spaces, community activist and artist. Sexual liberation is at the heart of individual transformation, without which there can be no meaningful societal progress. To this end, I have started hosting Sex Club, a conversational and experiential group space to normalise talking about sex and its nuances, to share knowledge and experiences, and to redefine sexuality as a spectrum. I am an experienced space holder, having co-founded an intentional community in London and having received training in non-violent communication, co-counselling and mindfulness-based resilience. I am also a co-founder of playground, an online education source and engagement platform for sexuality and intimacy due to launch this summer.

My artistic and personal enquiry is the authentic expression of self through creativity, intellect, emotion and sexuality. I consult on collective experience design at festivals, transformational co-created events and artist residencies. I spent 10 years in the corporate tech industry before my calling into the nonprofit sector and I remembered that I'm an artist, as we all are.

Chloe Wisdom

I’m a somatic sex therapist, facilitator, and events consultant. As a therapist, my intention is to enable people to explore the special connection between their sexuality, creativity and well-being, often in and through relationships, and always using the body as a tool for transformation.

I use a combination of somatic and creative approaches including Movement Psychotherapy, Shadow Work and Conscious Kink, Tantra, Creative Arts, Mindfulness and Play Therapy. In my events and consultancy work I combine my therapeutic skills and knowledge with traditional events management and production, and my ability as a facilitator and space holder, to create powerful transformational experiences for groups at workshops and parties.


“... Liberated. Trusting. Inspired. Wooow. Grounded. Relaxed. Uninhibited. Unique. Embodied. Open. Flowing. Peaceful. Shining. Hungry for more. …”

House of Togetherness

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House of Togetherness is the pop-up Home of Human Connections in Covent Garden, here for just 3 months. We create live experiences that explore our relationship with ourselves and others in a playful, meaningful and often profound way.

We welcome everyone beyond their identity, labels and beliefs. There are no shoulds or musts at HoT only permission to be yourself.

What You Should Bring

We have locker rooms so bring a (returnable) pound if you wish to use them.

We're a sustainable venue and no longer use disposable cups for our events. Please bring a refillable water bottle or coffee cup for drinks. Alternatively we have reusable cups you can purchase from our tuck shop for £2.50 (and get 50p off any drink).What You Should Bring

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