Back to All Events

Shhh Dating Party (20s & 30s)

  • House of Togetherness 14-16 Betterton St London WC2H 9BU United Kingdom (map)

Shhh Dating Party Edition

Signature connection and flirting games by some of London's finest dating hosts. Party, play, connect and mingle with likeminded singles. No talking allowed.

(okay just a tiny bit - after alll this is our party event ;) )

- Party and connect with open-minded Londoners
- Our friendly and experienced hosts guide you through the evening and keep the party going

What to expect
Join up to 80 others in our Covent Garden pad for a night of Flirting and connection games. Shhh does dating parties like no other. Our excellent hosts take you through playful icebreakers and get you warmed up and relaxed in no time at all.

7 - 7:30pm Arrival & mingling

7:30 - 7:45pm Ice breakers

7:45 - 8:30pm Round One of non-verbal connection games

8:30 - 8:45pm Break

8:45 - 9:30pm Round Two of connection games

9:30 - 10:00pm Informal hang out

Whether or not you meet someone special to snuggle up to for the days to follow, or find someone there to have a good laugh with, you'll go home with a warm fuzzy glow. And whatever happens, you'll learn a trick or two on how to really get to know someone in this dating world.

Please note this is a Party format, not a speed dating format!


Is there matching at this one?

There is no formal matching at this event, in the 2nd half you will be able to send notes to people you are attracted to, so its all to play for!

Is there a bar?

Our new venue has no bar though you are able to bring your own alcohol if you wish.

So what's Shhh Dating all about?
Now in our 5th year, Shhh Dating remains one of the most unique dating events in the UK (maybe even the world). We know of a number of Shhh Daters have got married or are in long term relationships after coming to our events. Shhh lets you meet people in a playful and meaningful new way. It gives you the opportunity to deeper romantic connections without talking. It's an entertaining evening out with others looking for the same things as you.

Who is it for?
It's for professional guys and gals in their 20s and 30s who want to meet other eligible, like-minded humans in person. You don't need to be a particular sort of person to come, just open-minded and the tiniest bit adventurous.

Why is it unique and awesome?
Without words, you get a chance to have a really different experience than other dating meetups. Past participants tell us they tend to date people longer term from our events. We create these events for the purpose of fun, authenticity without any pressure.No matter if you make a romantic connection or not, people always leave our events feeling warm and happy, with a bit more inspiration in finding a more exciting way to date.

So really... there's no talking?
Well there are parts of the night where you are invited to leave words behind, though there are other times where you are welcome to talk. The eyes are the window to the soul. Scientists have shown that prolonged eye contact can lead to people falling in love. This is a moment to drop the words and tune in to people in a different way. There's plenty of time to talk at the end of the night!

How does it work?
The Shhh Party format takes you playfully meet up to 30 people of the opposite sex through rounds of superbly hosted and carefully crafted games. At the end there's time to hang out and talk to the people you like.

Why without words?
The eyes are the window to the soul! Scientists have shown that prolonged eye contact can lead to people falling in love. We spend so much time talking, this is a chance to drop the words and tune in to people in a different way. There's plenty of time to talk at the end of the night.

Eventbrite - Shhh Dating Party (20s & 30s)

House of Togetherness

3 up inc logo 2400 x 600 v3 (1).jpg

House of Togetherness is the pop-up Home of Human Connections in Covent Garden, here for just 3 months. We create live experiences that explore our relationship with ourselves and others in a playful, meaningful and often profound way.

We welcome everyone beyond their identity, labels and beliefs. There are no shoulds or musts at HoT only permission to be yourself.

What You Should Bring

We have locker rooms so bring a (returnable) pound if you wish to use them.

We're a sustainable venue and no longer use disposable cups for our events. Please bring a refillable water bottle or coffee cup for drinks. Alternatively we have reusable cups you can purchase from our tuck shop for £2.50 (and get 50p off any drink).

Earlier Event: April 23
Rage Club
Later Event: April 27
One Day Wheel of Consent Workshop