Before Togetherness there was Shhh Dating - flirting games, eye gazing, no talking! Shhh runs a couple of times a month in London and this is our special Shhh Dating Winter Party!
Shhh Dating experiences are friendly, playful and totally unique
"I have already recommended it to single friends!" - Bai *****
"Great fun and totally different" - Henry *****
"It was a unique experience, unlike anything I’ve done before, highly recommended" - Ewa *****
"Beautiful space, great hosts." Ian ****
In a nutshell
Connect with open minded Londoners through a series of carefully crafted games
Our friendly and experienced hosts guide you through the evening and make sure it's a lot of fun
At this special Winter Party edition meet and play with up to 100 creative professionals
How does it work?
Take part in our unique hosted, playful connection games and meet other singles.
Everyone wears a number, make a note of those you would like to connect with more. Use our unique matching cards to message others on the night or fill in your matches online and get emailed when others match with you.
What's it all about?
Shhh lets you meet people in a playful and meaningful new way. It gives you the opportunity to deeper romantic connections without talking. It's an entertaining evening out with others looking for the same things as you.
Who is it for?
It's for professional guys and gals in their 20s and 30s, who want to meet other like-minded humans in person. You don't need to be a particular sort of person to come, just open-minded and the tiniest bit adventurous.
Hosting beyond compare
Our hosts are the best in the business, expert at making your evening playful and creating at atmosphere of ease. You will feel at home in no time at all.
Why is it unique and awesome?
Without words, you get a chance to have a really different experience than other dating meetups. Past participants tell us they tend to date people longer term from our events. We create these events for the purpose of fun, authenticity without any pressure.
No matter if you make a romantic connection or not, people always leave our events feeling warm and happy, with a bit more inspiration in finding a more exciting way to date.
So really... there's no talking?
Well there are parts of the night where you are invited to leave words behind, though there are other times where you are welcome to talk. The eyes are the window to the soul. Scientists have shown that prolonged eye contact can lead to people falling in love. This is a moment to drop the words and tune in to people in a different way. There's plenty of time to talk at the end of the night.
Timing and Other Details
You can bring a mate of the opposite sex to the event and get a discounted rate. Pick "mixed pair" in the ticket options below for cheaper tickets.
On the night, arrive from 7pm for registration, the event starts at 7:30pm sharp. We finish by 9:30pm and play some tunes for a further half an hour so you can stay and mingle or head off into the night as you prefer.
Matching our new matching system will email you your matches within 24 hours, we never give your contact details to people you haven't matched with.